We have all been there, standing, watching, cringing, crying, yelling as we have just witnessed a relationship end.

Most of us develop this idea from a young age, which stays with us as we get older, that it is always the other persons fault that it has ended. Even if you did the breaking up.

The harsh truth is though, that where there is a relationship, there are two people at play. Which means both parties are equally responsible for it ending.

And I am not just necessarily talking about sexual partnerships, friendships count in this as well.

Now, you might be thinking.. “well, I didn’t think it would end” or “how was i supposed to know that it wouldn’t last”

And, with that in mind, here are 10 ways I have noticed in my short 24 years of relationships with others to ruin a relationship.

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